Yeah, kittens, I know a lot of people do this. That's probably why you see so many "Coming Soon" updates. I understand that it is easy to keep track of your cels this way (you're not the only one doing it, so I'm not picking on you--you're just one of the few admitting it--and that's a good thing, because it lets us discuss rather than just point fingers ^_^ *hugs*)
However . . .
I keep track of my coming cels on my hard drive. That way, I still know what's coming in, but I don't put it up on RS. Maybe that's something that others can consider trying . . . at the same time, I don't want to tell you what to do with your gallery. It's just a suggestion--take it or leave it.
I suppose an "everyone wins" situation would be that any *hidden* updates would not show up on the homepage--but I believe that Jason said that would be difficult to do. If I find the thread I'll post it . . .
Does anyone know if you personally can keep the update from showing up on the homepage? When you add a cel, there is a little box labeled "Password Req'd" on the page where you input all of the cel info and text. If you check that box when you first update, will your gallery show up on the homepage?
EDIT: I found Jason's post. So here are the words of the master:
http://www.rubberslug.com/board/showthread.asp?T=1232&P=2