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Crazy fits...
last modified: Wednesday, August 16, 2006 (11:47:58 PM)
Ok...I know that most guys always call girls crazy...and that I shouldn't be offended by it when it happens...but doesn't everyone go crazy once in a while? And what do you define as crazy? Someone who is right and you're afraid to admit it?

Anyways the reason I brought it up is becuase I got into a fight this weekend with my boyfriend over something little that blew up into a huge deal...and it literally made me crazy...he called me crazy...I thought I was crazy and it was pretty much the worst weekend of my life...and I just can't stop thinking about it...I have nightmares about what happened...the conversations that happened afterwards and now I can't even tell the difference between my imagination and reality...I'm seriously going crazy...


re: Crazy fits...Thursday, August 17, 2006 - 1:40:43 PM
Cutiebunny

Congrats - you''re now ending the "Honeymoon" phase of your relationship.

I wouldn''t worry about it because either one of two things will happen; One or both of you will realize that the fight was stupid and kiss and make up or two, the issue will have caused an unfixable rift causing you two to break up.
These things happen. In life, there will always be some sort of disagreement between two people. These things test both parties and demonstrate what type of person you are. These are necessary things that happen in relationships and if either one(or both) of you can''t handle it in a mature fashion, then being in a romantic relationship with this person would not be beneficial for you.


re: Crazy fits...Thursday, August 17, 2006 - 4:20:30 PM
wELCOME cONSUMER

Having been with Senor for 5+ years, these kinds of things happen from time to time. He or I find ourselves at our wits end over some issue, big or small. It''s a terrible feeling, but I think sometimes you need that kind of explosion. It lets you release a great deal of tension and after the dust settles, you usually love the person even more. You learn something about yourself, as well as the other person, in the whole ordeal. We''re all crazy. But I think women are more sensitive to the label because of their hormones. Men seem to pick up on this and call us crazy just to push those sensitive buttons. You''re not alone and know that there''s a resolution within grasp. *hugs*