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Where's the beef?
Priorities... last modified: Friday, July 21, 2006 (2:12:13 PM) This one's been a long time coming, but has been hard to put into words. Not to mention my head's swimming in all directions. It's funny how one event can put everything in your life in it's place. A Sunday night, after a long and crazy weekend, getting ready for bed and hearing that phone ring at 11:30pm. In our house, that's usually not a good sign. It's happened many times before as my husband's father is in delicate health. It's always a scary thought. But this time, it was my own mother, two hours away. She has MS, but has never had any real health concerns. I'd rather not get into the details, but it was very serious. After leaving for my hometown and spending several days by her bedside in the ICU, without any improvements, no signs of conciousness, and doctors' not having any clue to what happened, things were looking incredibly grim. But for what seemed to be a year's worth of prayers (in actuality it was a week), they were answered. She woke up, could breathe on her own and was back to her stubborn (but loving) self, eager to get home. What should've been some pretty major brain damage, there was none, what should've been a weak heart was strong. Doctor's simply could not explain what happened. All that I can believe that it was our faith, a miracle. Finally, what should've been several weeks of hospitalization came to a total of a week and a half.
I'm thankful everyday that what could've been a tragedy became something wonderous. But it makes you vulnerable and realize the true price (or pricelessness) of life. Cels, pullips, websites, uploads, whatever, they can be fun, but they're not important. Anyway, the moral of the story is to live your life with your loved one's to the fullest--and never stop believing. But I must thank my father, brother, other family, friends, and everyone online who knows what we've been going through. It's been super tough and a strain for our family and it's so sweet to know that we have the support of each other and those that I'm so thankful to have gotten to know. And to my husband (though he won't read this), a special thanks for putting up with all of my crap through the ordeal. So because of which, an upload that's 6 months overdue will stay that way a little longer. In addition, I haven't really made any purchases in a long while, due to everything that's going on, along with some of life's expenses. But many many thanks to my best cel bud Gabe, along with another dear friend in Japan (I'll keep her nameless for now ^_^) for being so incredibly sweet to pick up two huge wishes of mine, that would've otherwise been passed by. Love you guys! :3 Finally, as I'm sure many of you are waiting for an update on... ^_^ Puppies! My little girl was born on June 5th, and I cannot WAIT to bring her home in two weeks (I'll be picking her up on August 5th). Heh, and I think Kitty knows what's happening as she's checking out and already tested the crate and toys that are here. ^^;; In the meantime, I *still* need a name (we're thinking maybe Foxxie or Zoe). But let me know what you think, or feel free to pass one along if you have a good one in mind. ^_^ http://i63.photobucket.com/albums/h145/myers551/luckyfem27.jpg
I know how you feel about the phone ringing at that time. Prayer is incredibly strong and when you have faith miracles can occur. I am very happy to hear that your mother has had a speedy recovery, with no signs of vital damage. I know how much stress and anguish situations like these can cause, and you are very strong. You know you can always e-mail/feedback me if you ever need someone to cry to or a shoulder to lean on. Life is short, and too precious. A lot of people fail to realize this until they have something or someone taken from them, and then they realize it too late. You are right cels can make you happy and it is a fun hobby, but it''s not life. Spending it with those you love and cherishing those moments are what counts, not how many objects/things you have in your possession. But I do congratulate you on aquiring two wishes through friends! ^_^ And what an adorable puppy! She''s so adorable!! I love that face...and I''m horrible at names. Even though I am partial to Foxxie. ;)
#1 - I''m so happy to hear that things worked out for the best for you and your family. Dealing with illness is one of the hardest things to overcome when it comes to loved ones, but everything seems to have worked out, and I couldn''t be happier for you! Also, appreciating people while they''re here is something most people won''t learn until it''s happened, sad to say. I still don''t *completely* -know- that concept because I''ve never lost anyone very close to me (my boyfriend''s father did pass away which hurt so bad, but I recall him saying that he just wishes he would have appreciated him more). Regardless, you''ve pulled through. What doesn''t kill you makes you stronger. #2 - Your puppy is adorable. I could totally explode at how cute she is!
It''s rough when life reminds you what''s really important. But I''m glad to hear everything is working out better than expected. ^_^ Hang in there! And I think Zoe is a great name!
Thanks everyone for the support. *hugs* I went down there this weekend to visit, and she''s doing so much better; things almost seemed "normal" again. It was hard to go down there since it was the first time since she was hospitalized. But I think I can finally relax now ^_^ (though if I ever need to, I may just borrow that shoulder of yours SME, lol--thanks hon) Eeep! And thanks for the comments on my little girl. I am *soooo* counting down the days. STILL haven''t decided on what to go with on a name (but I still like the two I earlier mentioned, but I just can''t decide >_<;;;); it might come down to what best suits her once I have her home. *_* Come on August!!!!!
Just a big huggie from my side, too. Family is more important so take your time for it. The up can wait. Cute little fellow you have, ^_^ How about Menchi or Kitsune? :P |
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